Ways to Support Your Children in School

As a parent, you want to both protect your children and help them be their best. Helping them learn and grow is a big way to achieve both goals. You’ll want to give your children a head start in their education so they can safely navigate through the sometimes tricky terrain of school.

Use the following tips and resources to help your child adjust to and do well in school. You can also find resources and services to help support children after a traumatic event.

Give your child a support network

Talk to a school liaison. Your installation school liaison is your first stop for assistance with all things education. School liaisons can:

• Help you determine the best fit for your child when changing schools and provide necessary information about culture, academics and extracurricular activities — your “must haves.”
• Connect you to the Exceptional Family Member Program Family Support provider and your school’s special education department. They can also connect you with youth programs outside of school and provide assistance for your child’s specific educational needs.
• Fill you in on state and local home-schooling requirements and connect you with nearby home-school groups if you’ve chosen to home school. Installation youth centers offer enrichment classes and may open their facilities during the school day to children who receive home school education. Contact your installation youth center for more information.
• Connect you to resources such as laws and educational guidance through the Department of Education and to the Military Interstate Children’s Compact Commission, which can assist you with a range of issues related to a child’s education including eligibility, enrollment, placement and graduation.

Get your child a tutor. It’s easier to keep up than catch up. Tutor.com for U.S. Military and Their Families can help your student stay ahead or get caught up.

• Live tutors are online and can help with homework, studying, test prep, proofreading, organizational skills and more.
• Tutoring and homework help is available 24/7 at no cost to active-duty service members, their spouses and K-12 dependents, as well as surviving spouses (unmarried) and surviving dependent children and orphans of personnel who died on active duty or while in retired status (whether the surviving spouse remarries or not).

Participate in child, youth and teen programs. Child and youth programs provide safe, developmentally-appropriate places for your child to socialize and grow, develop essential skills and make lasting connections.

• Youth centers are available on almost every installation where families PCS.
• Centers are staffed with trained, caring professionals who understand how to connect with youth, support them in their teen years and recognize the signs of stress.
• Read more about the military youth and teen programs offered on installations worldwide.

Support your student at home. Learning never stops. Here’s how to support your student at any age:

• Give your child a quiet place to study, and help your student create and maintain routines that support learning.
• Monitor homework and help your student chip away at larger projects.
• Keep your children engaged in their experiences. Ask them specific, not general, questions about school. Talk about your own work and how it connects to what they are learning. Get your child or teen out for a walk to help them open up about how things are going.
• Engage children in healthy living and active lifestyles, and make sure they have a nutritious breakfast each morning to support attention spans and learning at school. Military OneSource offers fitness, nutrition and active living essentials and a number of healthy living resources to support your MilFam’s overall health.

Connect to support for specific situations

If your child has a disability or special need, the Exceptional Family Member Program can help you navigate the Defense Department’s network of services and support.

• Contact your installation EFMP Family Support provider who can provide information and referral about your child’s special education needs. They also offer PCS transition assistance by providing a warm handoff to the EFMP Family Support provider at the gaining installation.
• Visit the EFMP & Me online tool to create an education checklist with information and resources tailored for your family.
• Check out the Education Directory for Children with Special Needs to locate early intervention and school-age special education information specific to your locale.
• Reach out to your local school liaison to access a variety of education support for family members with special needs, including help with transitioning to a new school, navigating the special education system in your current school or addressing general education issues and needs. School liaisons can also assist with referral to the DOD Exceptional Family Member Program.