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Digital Abuse

Overview

Many of us use smartphones and computers every day without thinking twice about the digital traces our activities can leave behind. If you believe your spouse or partner may be monitoring your communications, accessing your personal information or tracking your location through a mobile device, computer or other technology, taking steps to protect your privacy and personal information can help keep you safe.

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Find help for domestic abuse from a victim advocate closest to you by using the Domestic Abuse Victim Advocate Locator — whether you’re located in the United States or overseas.

Many digital devices leave traces that someone else may be able to access. A spouse or significant other who is monitoring your activity may:

  • Access your private information.
  • Gain control over your online accounts.
  • Use your mobile device to track your location.
  • Use tracking devices, such as AirTags, to monitor your location.

Technology and relationship safety

Smartphones and other electronic devices are a big part of our lives, but they can also be a place where unhealthy relationship patterns can develop. And it can be difficult to know when those patterns are healthy and when they might become harmful.

Modern technology has made it easier for people to harass, monitor or control a partner. This could include sharing sexually explicit images of a partner online without their consent, accessing personal accounts, tracking someone through smartphone apps or location-sharing features, using tracking devices or misusing connected technology such as smart home devices and voice assistants.

The following resources can help you keep your location and information secure from digital abuse — and keep track of it if it happens.

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Contact your nearest Family Advocacy Program office.

FAP supports service members and their spouses, partners and families to provide advocacy, supportive counseling and evidence-based treatment to promote safety and healthy relationship dynamics. Use the local FAP office locator on MilitaryINSTALLATIONS to find your nearest office.

ARTICLES AND EXTERNAL RESOURCES

For more information regarding technology safety, consult this compilation of tips and resources from the Safety Net Project at the National Network to End Domestic Violence. Inclusion of this information does not imply endorsement of the National Network to End Domestic Violence by the War Department.

If you are experiencing abuse, contact your local Family Advocacy Program domestic abuse victim advocate. For immediate support, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233.

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Computer use can be monitored and is impossible to completely clear. If you are afraid your internet usage might be monitored, visit the 24/7 Family Advocacy Program Victim Advocate Locator or call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800−799−7233.