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Getting Married in the Military
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Make sure your relationship is military strong
Thinking of marrying a service member? There are lots of great reasons to marry and several key factors to consider when making this lifelong commitment. Review our checklist and articles to see if your relationship is military strong.
RESOURCES TO HELP YOU MAKE SURE YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS MILITARY STRONG
BENEFITS & SUPPORT SERVICES TO HELP YOU MAKE SURE YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS MILITARY STRONG
Plan your wedding
Planning your wedding can be exciting, though there are many details to consider, especially for weddings on a military installation. Although there’s no official protocol for military weddings, you may want to incorporate some military traditions into your big day. And you’ll want to follow the rules and regulations regarding the wearing of uniforms and the use of proper military titles on invitations, name cards and seating charts. Check out our list of things to consider as you plan your wedding ceremony.
BENEFITS & SUPPORT SERVICES TO HELP PLAN YOUR WEDDING
Complete your paperwork
Filling out paperwork is a necessary and important step as you prepare to get married in the military. Military OneSource provides you with a to-do list covering everything from getting a copy of your marriage certificate and a military identification card to asking your spouse to enroll you in DEERS. Call Military OneSource at 800-342-9647 to speak with a consultant. OCONUS/International? View calling options.
ARTICLES AND EXTERNAL RESOURCES TO HELP YOU COMPLETE YOUR PAPERWORK
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